Dec 27

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Still bitter cold.  and no change in sight.  Worked out at the health club...trying to do a little more each time I go.  so far so good.

I struggled with whether to write the following or not, but since I am now writing of it, I guess I made the call....

I did not hear from either of my kids on Christmas.  no call, no email.  I am not surprised, just disappointed.  Divorce is between parents, and kids should not be involved.  just shows you the attitudes involved.  I guess this is how it will be.  I extended the olive branch to both of them, to no avail.  I have called...one sometimes picks up, the other does not.  Not much different from before - I would reach out more than they would...but now that is done.  I was made to feel more welcome by my friends sons at his Christmas party on Friday.

A Christmas where I neither gave, nor received any gifts.

I hope they didn't learn that behavior from me. as I said to both, if you want to ask me something, ask me.  neither did, just relying on what they were told.

too soon old, too late smart.  never truer than now.  but it does help me move forward with some clarity.

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